Saturday, May 31, 2008

Going Great!

So far so good! We've had a great first few days with Tolan. I highly recommend having a Mom come help out!
I've been healing well from the c-section, and getting good sleep at night (Mom takes the night shift with Tolan!). The kids love their little brother. He's such a sweet little thing!
I've been in good spirits, too. If I wasn't completely bald, I wouldn't have even remembered I still have cancer!

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Tolan's Home!

We just got back from the hospital with Tolan! He's been cleared to come home and join our family. We're so excited to have him with us. (Now the work begins!)

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Any Day Now...

Just got back from visiting with Tolan at the hospital. He's doing very well -- off all IV's and breathing pretty normally. Now we're just waiting for him to eat enough for them to be confident he can go home!
I'm healing well. It's amazing to me that I can feel a big difference in getting better every day.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

I'm home

I'm home! I was released from the hospital on Friday afternoon. My c-section went very well, and I'm healing fast. I could have gone home earlier, but opted to stay because of Tolan being in the NICU. Friday was the longest allowed by insurance, so I had to be released. It was very strange coming home without a baby, and I had a hard time those first few hours. But Criag and I went back that night to visit with Tolan and I felt much better.
Tolan continues to improve each day. He started out with IV fluids (no bottles of formula), because he couldn't eat and breath at the same time. His breathing was very fast (Tachypnea), about 150 breaths per minute (normal is between 20-60 bpm). And he wasn't getting enough oxygen. So the poor little guy had an IV in his hand and one in his foot, oxygen tubes up his nose and wires everywhere!
He progressed to a mixture of IV fluids and formula fed through a feeding tube up his nose. Then he was able to take on the bottle a little at a time, and they took him off the IV fluid. He's also getting enough oxygen on his own, so the oxygen tubes have been taken out.
When we saw him last night, he looked great! No more feeding tube -- he can do it all by bottle now. He's on a seven day course of antibiotics, and his breathing has dropped to below 100 breaths per minute -- still a bit high, but coming down a little each day.
Craig and I visit him twice a day, and we just think he's the cutest little guy! I can't wait to bring him home to join his family.
Mom's been a great help with the kids and keeping up with the house. She's anxious for Tolan to come home too and be able to help care for him. Thank you, thank you all so much for your prayers -- they're working! My next chemo treatment is June 5th.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Tolan

Tolan is still in ICU but doing better. Test results for infection and pneumonia both came back negative. We are told that he just needs a little more time for his lungs to fully develop. Cheri will probably be coming home tomorrow (Thursday) and Tolan next week.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Cheri and Tolan

Tolan was born on schedule on Monday, June 19th. Everything went great for the delivery. Cheri's recovery is coming along very well. She was eating solid foods by Monday night. Tolan is 7lbs and 19 inches. He's having a little trouble right now and is in the ICU. His breathing rate is way above normal and tests are being run to determine the cause. Dan came by at lunch today and we gave Tolan a blessing. Cheri and I believe everything will be fine, but please remember Tolan in your prayers.

Craig

Saturday, May 17, 2008

A day and a half left!!

After two steroid shots (one in each cheek), and my cbc blood check, I'm cleared for the c-section on Monday!
I'm so excited to take this next step, and meet our new little son. The name we've chosen for him is: Tolan Paul Sharp. Tolan is a unique name that we've never heard before, and love it. Paul is my dad's name and we love him!

Mom arrived late Thursday night, and has been helping us out so much already. Alana is having a tough time this month. First with the sickness, then the ear infections, then the sprained wrist, and today we brought her in for a check because she's running a fever again, and is very lethargic. They checked her for strep, which is going around, and thank goodness it's not that. She just has a virus. So Mom is on 'Alana duty' this weekend, as I'm trying to avoid getting sick!

Criag and I are scheduled to arrive at Germantown Methodist Hospital at 7:30am Monday morning, and have the c-section at 9:30. I don't know how long I'll need to stay; I guess they'll just monitor us and see how it goes. Then I go in for my next chemo treatment on June 5th. That should give me a good break to heal and then get going again fighting the cancer!

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

6 days to go!

I feel so much better!! We had quite a time of it last week, with sickness and injuries. Mom's aren't supposed to get sick! But I'm doing much, much better now.
I had an ob/gyn appointment yesterday, and everything looks great. The baby is measuring about 6 1/2 pounds and all systems functioning well. We can't wait to meet this little guy!
I'm scheduled for a steroid shot on Thursday just to make sure the baby's lungs are developed; and then a blood check on Friday to make sure I'm ready for surgery on Monday.

The clothes are washed, bottles ready, bassinet situated, diapers and wipes piled up, and my Mom's on her way - set to arrive Thursday evening! Here we go!

Friday, May 9, 2008

The Gift of Breath

It becomes difficult to breathe in the last few weeks of pregnancy! Add to that stuffiness and congestion, and I feel I'm gasping for air. It certainly makes me appreciate something as simple as breathing!
I'm on the mend as far as my cold symptoms go. Still a bit stuffy, but feeling much better. Thank you to all those who helped me by taking Alana so I could rest, and for the meals brought this week.
Craig and I would much rather be the ones that offer help to others, than ask for help ourselves, but I think we're learning that there are times we really need others! We're so blessed to have so many friends.
Alana tripped on the sidewalk this week and after a visit to urgent care, she's wearing a brace for 'soft tissue damage' to the inside of her wrist. She's a bit dramatic about protecting it, but otherwise doing fine.
Hope you all have a happy Mothers Day weekend; and enjoy breathing!!!

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

I'm Sick

Well, it was inevitable! After being around a coughing two year old all week last week, I was bound to get sick. I'm feeling very achy and stuffy right now.
I went to the ob/gyn yesterday morning and he prescribed antibiotics to prevent any infection (that would be bad). I don't have a temperature right now, and we're hoping to keep it that way. I just feel wiped out!
Baby's doing well, and we're on track for delivery on the 19th!

Thursday, May 1, 2008

What A Day!

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Chemo Round #3 & Double Ear Infection!
Poor Alana has been coughing all week long. Some days she seemed very fine, others she would cough and cough. We assumed that this was a cold that was running it's course. Well today I had my third round of chemotherapy and I didn't want Alana getting other little kids sick, so I asked my good friend, Patty (who's kids are all in school), if she'd watch her for me. Patty was nice enough to watch Alana for the four hours I was gone! Alana was chipper and happy in the morning, but as the day went on, she complained of her ear hurting. Patty called Craig, who texted me, and I had Craig call for a doctors appointment. My treatment was done at 2:00, and Alana had a 2:40 appointment. I went straight from the West Clinic to Patty's to the Pediatricians. Alana said her left ear hurt, so the doctor looked in her right ear first. He said, "Well, this one's infected". He tried looking in her left ear, but couldn't see past the gobs of earwax. He had to clean out the ear (which Alana didn't like in the least), and when he could finally see in he said, "Oh, this one's really infected!" Poor Alana -- double ear infections.
My appointment went very well. My blood counts are great, and the chemo treatment went very smoothly. My oncologist did a physical exam and was surprised to find that the tumor seems to be breaking up. I asked if that was a good thing, and he said, "Yes, that's a good thing."
I'm still supposed to avoid sick people, so I asked what's a Mother of a two year old to do when she's sick! Fortunately, my white blood cell counts are normal right now, and should be until next week when they'll drop. So Alana has 7 days to get well. I think that will be plenty of time!
Next big step -- having a baby! I go in to see the ob/gyn on Monday, and again on the 12th, and then it's delivery time. My oncologist said he'll check in on me after the baby's born to see how my body's doing and when to start chemo back up again.
Just another day in the life of a Mom!